THE 10 TYPES · 06
What is the Slave?
This is one of the most committed types of submissives, surrendering all control to the dominant with minimal limits. For her, the relationship is about total surrender, where she seeks to be entirely "owned" and finds purpose in giving herself completely to her dominant's wishes. The slave type often enters into a Master/slave (M/s) relationship where strict protocols and deep, structured rules guide the dynamic, forming a lifestyle commitment rather than occasional play.
How does she show up in daily life?
Her submission is part of every day: protocols for how she speaks, dresses, greets or asks permission. For her, structure is not a weight but a home. It gives her a clear place and a deep sense of purpose.
What does she need from a Dominant?
- A Dominant who takes total responsibility seriously: for her safety, her health and her growth.
- Written agreements, often a contract, reviewed regularly.
- Consistency and care over years, not weeks.
- Respect for the few limits she keeps, and for her right to leave.
What are the risks for this type?
Total surrender is only safe with someone who has earned total trust, slowly. Minimal limits are not zero limits: her health, her safety and her right to end the relationship always stay hers. She should keep her friends, some money of her own and a way to leave. A Master who asks her to give these up is trapping her, not leading her.
EXERCISE
What is never given
Keep this list somewhere private and safe.
- Write what you would happily give to a Dominant.
- Write what you will always keep: your health, your safety, your right to leave, and anything else.
- Read this list every time your dynamic changes.